boy if you don’t get tf- ✨ maya ✨ December 13, 2018 I went over to a guy’s apartment once and he had a single chair, a flat screen and 400+ tiny figurines of various pokemon, anime characters and lego things on a rickety ass bookshelf. All people are capable of being disgusting. It is also not a concern limited to the heteronormative: One woman I spoke to detailed a horrific encounter in which she arrived at a female Tinder date’s apartment in which there was what appeared to be a “wise old tree” in her toilet and a bedroom covered in dirty laundry and moldy dishes, and said date then got onto her own bed with rain-soaked clothes and shoes.
I, for instance, once lived in a former tenement building where the bathtub was placed, bewilderingly, in the kitchen, and I can’t claim that I put all that much effort into making it any less bad. Many men take great pride in their living spaces, and many not-male-identifying people do not.
The gist is that men, in general, are presumed to live in apartments that are empty, ugly, or dated, and that they don’t even care enough to fix them. Guys really live in apartments like this and don’t see any issue /c7FQqgDgov- kat hasty December 13, 2018
